Not so different, which explains so very much: http://blogs.wsj.com/atwork/2013/02/15/more-proof-that-hiring-and-dating-arent-so-different/?mod=e2tw

As Roxane Gay wrote:
“If you get too riled up about this sort of thing, you’re humorless. You’re easily offended. You’re told to “get over it.” You’re told to have a “sense of humor.””