{"id":614,"date":"2006-02-18T15:28:58","date_gmt":"2006-02-18T20:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/wp\/?p=614"},"modified":"2006-02-18T15:28:58","modified_gmt":"2006-02-18T20:28:58","slug":"whatever-happened-to-take-this-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=614","title":{"rendered":"Whatever Happened To &#8220;Take This Job&#8230;&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Used to be that contempt for authority was a core American value, especially when that authority was an insufferable boss.<br \/>\nOne is hard-pressed to find even a shadow of that cherished iconoclasm in today&#8217;s blogosphere, and I&#8217;m hard-pressed to understand why.<br \/>\nTake the case of Dianna Abdala, a 24 year old Boston-area attorney who has become famous recently for a series of emails between her and one William Korman, a potential employer.<br \/>\nIn a huffery\/puffery because Abdala declined his job offer (he reneged on his original salary offer, so she decided to open her own practice), Korman threatened &#8211; in writing &#8211; to discredit her among his fellow attorneys, which tells us that we are not exactly dealing with Chief Justice material here.<br \/>\nPutting his threat into action, Korman forwarded the <a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/Nightline\/story?id=1635684\" target=\"_blank\">exchange<\/a> to a friend, it was leaked to law firms on two continents AND to the press, including Nightline, and the rest is history.<\/p><p><!--more--><br \/>\nThe actual email thread, which has been published on several website, leads this former HR professional to the conclusion that Attorney Korman is a  blithering idiot, outgunned and outclassed by a kid 12 years his junior.<br \/>\nFor example, in one message, Korman blusters about being out the cost of business cards and &#8220;stationary&#8221; (no doubt a fiscal crisis of major proportions for a supposedly successful Boston lawyer who can&#8217;t spell), and name-calls Attorney Abdala with the lame prejoratives &#8220;immature&#8221; and &#8220;unprofessional&#8221;.  (Wow.  To a young, aggressive lawyer, that must have really <em>hurt<\/em>.)<br \/>\nAbdala responds with the elegant riposte, &#8220;A real lawyer would have put the contract into writing and not exercised any such reliance until he did so.&#8221;<br \/>\nThis all reminds me of an attitude I&#8217;ve encountered recently myself in certain businesses around these parts that a worker is no more than a bonded serf, apparently obliged to sign over soul as well as body, while &#8220;the company&#8221; remains free to fire, demote, humiliate, lie, cheat, suffocate and poison at will.<br \/>\nSound like a regression to the old sweatshop and robber baron days?<br \/>\nWhat amazes me, though, is how many young people <em>go along with this<\/em> 1950-ish &#8220;the boss is always right&#8221; attitude.<br \/>\nIn fact, Korman received a number of fawning letters, with resumes,  from eager young things altogether willing to strap on kneepads for a buck.<br \/>\nThat there are 24 year olds around like Dianna Abdala makes me very relieved that we haven&#8217;t lost an ENTIRE generation to the type of corporate mindwashing that hypnotizes people into leaving their self-respect in the parking lot on Monday mornings.<br \/>\nMeanwhile, Korman admitted to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.boston.com\/news\/local\/massachusetts\/articles\/2006\/02\/16\/2_e_mailers_get_testy_and_hundreds_readevery_word\/?page=2\" target=\"_blank\">Boston Globe<\/a> that he sent a copy of the emails to a friend, giving his permission to &#8220;email this to whomever you want&#8221;.<br \/>\nAttorney Abdala responded by reporting Korman to the Board of Bar Overseers for &#8221;unprofessional and unethical&#8221; conduct. According to the Globe, <em>She also said she believes that Korman&#8217;s remark about Boston&#8217;s &#8221;small legal community&#8221; was tantamount to &#8221;threatening my legal career,&#8221; and that he circulated the e-mails as a &#8221;cheap ploy to bring more business to his firm.&#8221;<\/em><br \/>\nIn other words, Dianna Abdala is a young woman who believes that her proper position in the male-dominated world of legal egos is something other than prone.<br \/>\nThat seems to have offended the vast majority of the great unwashed who contribute anonymously to the Globe&#8217;s message boards.  In between sexist musings about Dianna Abdala&#8217;s appearance, jealous comments about her self-admitted status as a &#8220;trust fund baby&#8221;, and snide aspersions on the quality of her legal education (Suffolk Law), there are numerous self-righteous tut-tuttings about her &#8220;bratty&#8221; behavior as well as vindictive predictions that she&#8217;ll never find work in THIS town, snark, snark.<br \/>\nVarious bloggers have made this yet another cautionary tale about (ho hum) the risks of exposing youthful indiscretions in e-mail, the medium that never dies, sort of the electronic paradigm of the girl who lost her reputation by going too far with the local football star on an ill-fated Saturday night.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m not sure how much public play this has received outside of the Boston area, but my conclusion from the local reaction is that Boston is caught in a time warp of white shirts, cube farms, scheduled lunch breaks and general up-tightness.<br \/>\nNo wonder so many people are leaving.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Used to be that contempt for authority was a core American value, especially when that authority was an insufferable boss. 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