{"id":267,"date":"2005-01-26T06:53:13","date_gmt":"2005-01-26T11:53:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/wp\/?p=267"},"modified":"2005-01-26T06:53:13","modified_gmt":"2005-01-26T11:53:13","slug":"as-ive-been-saying-all-along","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=267","title":{"rendered":"As I&#8217;ve Been Saying All Along&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People have given me sanctimonious advice my whole life about how looks don&#8217;t matter, it&#8217;s what&#8217;s inside that counts, etc.<br \/>\nAs anyone who had the misfortune to grow up homely knows, that&#8217;s a pantload.<br \/>\nAnd telling people who weren&#8217;t born lucky in looks that if they would only change their at-ti-tude, they would be happy\/rich\/successful &#8211; well, it just adds insult to injury.<\/p><p><!--more--><br \/>\nCareerBuilder.com put a welcome stop to this nonsense with their <a href=\"http:\/\/msn.careerbuilder.com\/Custom\/MSN\/CareerAdvice\/297.htm?siteid=siteid=cbmsn4283&sc_extcmp=JS_wi02_june04_advice&cbRecursionCnt=1&cbsid=617e7ce87edf4c7e8418654da7087716-160035431-rr-1\" target=\"_blank\">article <\/a>&#8220;Do Pretty People Earn More?&#8221;<br \/>\nAnd more power to &#8217;em for doing so, I sez.<br \/>\nOne study at Michigan State showed that &#8220;plain&#8221; (i.e., homely) <i>people earn 5 to 10 percent less than people of average looks, who in turn earn 3 to 8 percent less than those deemed good-looking<\/i>.<br \/>\nIn other words, the financial penalty of being &#8220;plain&#8221; is as much as <b>17%<\/b>.  That&#8217;s the kind of number that makes social activists seethe in reference to gender and racial bias.  But in America, discrimination against the ugly is accepted as a normal, natural business practice.<br \/>\nIf being lowballed in the wage department because of looks wasn&#8217;t enough, homely people suffer from yet another form of discrimination:  favoritism based on marital status.<br \/>\nCareerBuilder.com has another <a href=\"http:\/\/msn.careerbuilder.com\/Custom\/MSN\/CareerAdvice\/413.htm?siteid=siteid=cbmsn4398&sc_extcmp=JS_wi1_sept04_advice\" target=\"_blank\">article<\/a>, &#8220;Are Married People More Successful?&#8221;.<br \/>\nQuoting from studies and books like <i>The Case For Marriage<\/i> by Linda Waite and Maggie Gallagher, the article states that <i>married white women earn four percent more and married black women earn 10 percent more than their single peers<\/i>.<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s assume, as a matter of common sense, that homely women have little or no chance of being married.<br \/>\nNot having looked at the research docs to see if the following is a fair assumption, let&#8217;s also say that the effect of being homely and being unmarried are cumulative.<br \/>\nThat would mean that for a homely single woman, that financial penalty grows from a 17% to a whopping 20-25% differential.<br \/>\nIn other words, a pretty married woman makes 20-25% more &#8211; for the same work &#8211; than a homely unmarried woman.<br \/>\nThat means very likely that an unattractive single woman is basically in survival mode her whole life.  She is working just to &#8220;get by&#8221;, unable to save for retirement, for example, or emergencies.<br \/>\nI knew there was a reason I really hate those smug Smith\/Barney ads.  You know the ones, where a super-attractive white couple are dancing on the beach, celebrating their $4 million beach house, and another super-attractive black couple are patting themselves on the back because they&#8217;ve put four kids through college (&#8220;two in the Ivy League&#8221;).<br \/>\nThe Smith\/Barney ads lecture about the twin benefits of financial self-denial and the stunning success of their financial advisors.<br \/>\nBut if you don&#8217;t have disposable income &#8211; i.e., that gigantic 20% of extra bacon that the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stlyrics.com\/lyrics\/funnygirl\/sadiesadie.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Sadies<\/a> get to bring home &#8211; then what can the geniuses at Smith\/Barney do for you?<br \/>\nYeah, squat.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t blame S\/B for pitching to attractive married couples.<br \/>\nI do resent the dishonesty of their message, though.  To tell people who were born on third base that they just hit a home run by having a smart investment plan is ridiculous.<br \/>\nI&#8217;d be a heck of a lot more impressed if S\/B showed a case study of a homelier-than-sin single woman who secured a modest retirement income through their investment know-how.<br \/>\nThen again, meeting Santa or the Tooth Fairy would impress the heck out of me, too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People have given me sanctimonious advice my whole life about how looks don&#8217;t matter, it&#8217;s what&#8217;s inside that counts, etc. As anyone who had the misfortune to grow up homely knows, that&#8217;s a pantload. And telling people who weren&#8217;t born &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=267\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=267"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/267\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}