{"id":16279,"date":"2020-03-14T07:28:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T12:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=16279"},"modified":"2020-03-14T07:28:00","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T12:28:00","slug":"friday-the-13th-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=16279","title":{"rendered":"Friday the 13th"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Rained.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Got the transfer station run finished before it got too bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;d shortchanged Ron when I divvied up the proceeds.  I paid off credit cards, the HELOC and a personal loan, but had forgotten about a couple of cash advances Ron withdrew to pay tradesmen; yesterday we corrected the oversight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That raised the following financial question in my mind at least, and I submitted it to an online guru this morning.  Wonder if it&#8217;ll get answered: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>My husband and I lived together 50 years ago, lost touch for 40+ years, became reacquainted and got married 9 years ago.  We have a biological son and grandchildren.  My husband is attractive, I&#8217;m not.  Before we got married, he racked up a lot of personal debt, although he did maintain a good credit rating.  I invested in property and helped our son and his family through hard times.<br>As a homely woman, I appreciate that my husband has given up intimacy and the ability to &#8220;show off&#8221; his wife to his friends.  We recently sold an investment property.  We agreed to a split of the proceeds, but I feel that he might be entitled to a larger share because he sacrificed to marry me.  What should a man receive in exchange for marrying a homely woman? <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rained.Got the transfer station run finished before it got too bad.I&#8217;d shortchanged Ron when I divvied up the proceeds. I paid off credit cards, the HELOC and a personal loan, but had forgotten about a couple of cash advances Ron &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/?p=16279\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16279"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16279\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16280,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16279\/revisions\/16280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hendersonbrook.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}